![]() ![]() They use words, they use fists, they use lies, they use fear – but all in all, they want to push others down and exalt themselves and will stop at nothing to achieve their goal. They have a strong need to feel better and look better than those around them, so they choose to bully anyone in their path. The Bully - This person can be subtle or outright offensive in their attempts to bully, but either way, their desire is to dominate and make themselves look powerful. Fits of rage not easily soothed, out of control temper tantrums that more closely resemble the patterns of a 2 yr. You may see them on the ball fields, the golf course, the stressful office meetings, or even on the highway. They’ve been known to throw things, hit things in their way, or spout off angry words they can never get back. These people become easily irate at even the smallest thing, which is a sure sign, there’s a deep-rooted problem inside. Like you never know what will set them off and fly into a fit of rage. The Too Easily Angered – This person is the one you always feel like you have to tiptoe around. Protect your life and the lives of those in your care. Don’t stay in a potentially dangerous situation with your false hope that you can somehow change their old patterns of abuse. If you find yourself in the home of an abuser, get help, now. These people need help from counseling and outside sources. Through their own experiences of internalized past hurt, they have become angry, vicious, and cruel to those they say they care about most. ![]() The Abuser – This person is desperately needy inside, and takes it out on you and the world around them. They have trouble letting go, so they don’t, they hold on, too tightly, until it about chokes out all those around them, suffocating others with their drive to be superior. They micro-manage down to the last detail. They watch you like a hawk, ready to pounce on your every flaw. They want to be in charge, not just of their lives, but of yours and everyone else’s too. The Controller - This person is a master manipulator and constant controller. Here are some of the most common types of toxic people we may rub shoulders with every day, or a few we may find in our own lives: 10 Types of Toxic People Today’s a good day to stop wasting time in toxic patterns of living. ![]() Sadly, when we look deep into the mirror of our souls, we may realize that we are the ones who have some unhealthy tendencies that God wants to change. And sometimes what propels that change is for some brave soul to be willing to say, “Stop, no more.” One who will choose what is better, and learn to set boundaries that will protect and limit the control an unhealthy person might be placed on another’s life. They may want you to think it does as if you possess the power to improve the value of their existence, but that’s not a burden meant for you to carry. Because in reality, it doesn’t depend on us. God never intends for us to spin our wheels, waste our days, trying to make others happy who can never be happy. ![]()
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